
GOD'S
PROMISE OF BETTER DAYS
by
Mariane Holbrook
In
1981, Rabbi Harold Kushner’s
book, “When Bad Things
Happen
To Good People” was breaking
sales records all
across
America.
So popular was the book
that it became the
subject
of many college courses and
study groups and
eventually
sold
over 4 million copies.
For
inquiring minds, an equally
intriguing book could be
written
titled,
“When Good Things Happen To
Bad People.”
During
the Great Depression of the
1930s, my parents had
every
reason to ask the second
question.
There were six children
to
feed and Mother’s health was
so poor that she spent much of
the
time
in bed, too ill from
pernicious anemia to care for
her family.
The
final blow came when Daddy
lost his job on the
Lehigh
Valley Railroad.
I
was a newborn baby with a
mother almost too weak to
nurse me.
My
oldest sister said the
strongest memory she had of me
as an
infant
was of my crying hour after
hour from hunger pains
because
there was so little milk.
If
ever a couple had occasion to
question God, it was my
parents
at
this time of their lives. They
had established Christ as the
head of
our
home, were faithful tithers,
yet were not spared the
vagaries and
cruelties
of the Depression that caused
thousands to jump from
multi-storied
building to their early deaths
all across America.
Unable
to pay his house payments,
facing foreclosure and lacking
only
$500 to pay off the mortgage,
Daddy approached his older
brother,
Irvin,
about a loan.
Uncle Irvin held a
position of prominence
at
IBM and had not been impacted
little if any by the
Depression.
“Indeed
not!” Uncle Irvin raged.
“If you hadn’t been
giving money to
the
church all these years you
wouldn’t be in the financial
straits you
are
in now.
Without
his aid, Mother and Daddy lost
their home and we moved
into
a rental property.
Hearing
that story later as a young
girl, I asked Mother why she
and
Daddy
weren’t bitter toward Uncle
Irvin or worse, mad at God.
Mother
had memorized a four-line poem
that, along with her
unwavering
faith and close walk with God,
enabled her to look past
their
present circumstances to a
time when God would relieve
their
economic
stresses and give them
financial stability:
“When I see the wicked prosper in their sinning
And the righteous dealt with many a cruel fate,
I remember this is only the beginning
And I whisper to my spirit, “Only wait.”
Though
they never owned a home, never
drove a car, my parents
used
their meager income to help
six of their seven children
through
college.
One became a banker.
Another a teacher. Two
became
Christian
missionaries to Africa and the
Philippines, one became a
pastor’s
wife, and two rose to the
highest rungs of their
corporate
ladders
in business and finance.
My
parents set a standard of
Christian conduct for
themselves that
their
children strove hard to
emulate. We never heard
them question
God.
We witnessed them
reading their Bibles and
praying regularly.
We
never saw any evidence of envy
or jealousy on their part.
They
stayed
the course and never wavered
in their faith.
Not even once.
But
during their nearly fifty
years of marriage before Daddy
went on
to
heaven, they were never
blessed financially, either.
They struggled
but
they made it.
And accepting state or
government assistance would
have
been unthinkable to them.
They had purposely laid
up their
treasures
in heaven where neither
thieves nor moths could
corrupt.
One
day, while sitting on the
front porch with my father, we
watched
my
two young sons playing on the
lawn.
Reaching over to hug
me,
Daddy
said with deep feeling, “I
am the richest man in the
world.
All
our children are grown, are
happy and doing well.
We are blessed.”
But
not as blessed as their
children were in having them
for parents.

  

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